Being a Safe Place and a sTrong Mother

On Mother’s Day this year I had the great honor of preaching with my mom. She has truly been a great example of a woman of God. I wanted to share some of my notes from that service plus things we did not talk about. She has taught me to be Word led and Spirit fed.

Proverbs 31:25-28 (NLT)

“She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. Her children stand and bless her.”

I. Mothers as a Safe Place

Scripture: Psalm 46:1 – “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” Are you more concerned with being right or being safe? Kindness and thankfulness are the keys to success and peace. Learning to lead by faith. If we try to be controlling today it will cause chaos in the future.

• Just as God is a refuge, mothers often serve as the first safe place a child knows.

• A godly mother is not perfect, but she is present—offering comfort, wisdom, and grace.

• Her arms become a haven where scraped knees and broken hearts are mended.

II. Mothers as a Strong Foundation

Scripture: Isaiah 40:31 – “…those who trust in the Lord will find new strength…”

• A mother’s strength isn’t just physical—it’s spiritual and emotional.

• Her strength comes from her trust in God. She leans into Him so others can lean on her.

• A mother holds it all together, even when she feels like she’s falling apart.

Strength is not the absence of struggle—it’s the presence of God in the midst of it.

III. Mothers as Faithful Supporters

Scripture: 2 Timothy 1:5 – “I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice…”

• Timothy’s faith legacy began with his mother and grandmother.

• A mother doesn’t just raise a child—she sows a destiny.

• Her prayers go before her children, building a future they haven’t even walked into yet.

Moms, never underestimate your quiet faithfulness. Every prayer whispered, every hug given, every Scripture taught is kingdom work.

Numbers 6:24-26 – “The Lord bless you and keep you…”

Scripture: Exodus 2:1–10

Jochebed, the mother of Moses, is a beautiful example of a mother who was both strong and courageous in the face of danger. Pharaoh had issued a brutal order: every Hebrew baby boy was to be thrown into the Nile. But Jochebed chose faith over fear.

• She hid her baby for three months, knowing the risk to her own life.

• When she could no longer hide him, she crafted a basket, waterproofed it, and laid her child in the very river meant for his destruction.

• She entrusted her baby to the hands of God—and God gave Moses back to her through Pharaoh’s daughter.

Jochebed teaches us that strength doesn’t always look loud or dramatic. Sometimes strength looks like silent, strategic faith. She didn’t know what the future held, but she trusted the One who held it.

Like Jochebed, your decisions today—your prayers, your courage, your obedience—are shaping generations. When you let go in faith, God steps in with favor

IV. Mothers as a powerful sound

Scripture: Proverbs 18:21 – “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”

Mothers carry a sacred influence with their words. A mother’s voice is often the first voice a child hears, and it becomes the internal voice they carry for a lifetime. Your words can become the soundtrack to their self-worth, faith, and courage. You can also determine the cycle that your children are use to living in by your words- Critics or Cheerleaders? Are you speaking the Word or your feelings, labels, opinions, etc…?

• When you say, “I believe in you,” you’re planting seeds of confidence.

• When you say, “God has a purpose for your life,” you’re shaping their destiny.

• But harsh, angry, or careless words can wound deeper than we realize—and those wounds can echo into adulthood. Critical words don’t create strong positive connections.

Think about Timothy in the New Testament—he became a young pastor, but the roots of his faith were watered by his mother and grandmother’s sincere, faithful instruction. Their words formed the foundation of his calling.

Speak life. Speak promise. Speak the Word of God over your children, even when they’re not acting like it. Your words have the power to call out the best in them and remind them of who they are—and Whose they are.

“Your words are not just heard—they are absorbed. Every word and sentence you speak has the power to shape a soul.”

To all the mothers—biological, spiritual, adoptive, and mentor moms—thank you. You reflect God’s heart. You are the hands of grace, the voice of wisdom, the strength in storms, and the arms of comfort.

Developing forgiveness

My greatest dream is to have children that have children that will serve Jesus whole heartedly! And that dream is becoming a reality. I believe forgiveness is a key to that!

The enemy doesn’t care about your convictions as long as you leave the character of Christ to defend it. Your opinion will tell you that you have a right to your wrong beliefs. (If it ain’t what the Word says it is a lie) Father God doesn’t have opinions or suggestions- He is right and has commandments. 🔥 Ephesians 4:28-32!

“So then, brace up and reinvigorate and set right your slackened and weakened and drooping hands and strengthen your feeble and palsied and tottering knees, [Isa. 35:3.] And cut through and make firm and plain and smooth, straight paths for your feet [yes, make them safe and upright and happy paths that go in the right direction], so that the lame and halting [limbs] may not be put out of joint, but rather may be cured. Strive to live in peace with everybody and pursue that consecration and holiness without which no one will [ever] see the Lord. Exercise foresight and be on the watch to look [after one another], to see that no one falls back from and fails to secure God’s grace (His unmerited favor and spiritual blessing), in order that no root of resentment (rancor, bitterness, or hatred) shoots forth and causes trouble and bitter torment, and the many become contaminated and defiled by it–”
‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭12‬:‭12‬-‭15‬ ‭AMPC‬‬

Bitterness is undeveloped murder… it is murder in diapers. Bitterness defiles me and everyone under my influence. I don’t think there would be a bitter resentful judgmental person in the universe if we saw how undeserving we are.

I believe God hates whatever interferes with unconditional love. If you eat the meal of judgement, offense, criticism and accusation you will become defiled because of the bitterness. There is no liberty for us outside of forgiving! Philippians 4:8- when I struggle with bad thoughts or accusations or offense I have to proactively attack that by replacing every one of those thoughts with Christ thoughts. I can’t afford of thinking about things that can set up roots inside of me. Bitter thoughts are never okay- they imprison you. Let’s walk in forgiveness! Let’s carry restoration! We cannot afford to be influenced by offense. We are a redemptive army- overcomers. Believing for us to be people that know how to forgive and love unconditionally! If we truly took the time to wash someone’s feet and understand why they walk like they do then we would not be offended but would be moved with compassion. Washing someone else’s feet washes the offense off of you. I am praying for grace that helps us be ministers of restoration- serving and loving others well. Holy Spirit help us in every environment and situation to be an instrument of forgiveness in Jesus name.

Stay thankful!

My granddaughter and me
My son, daughter in love, and granddaughter
My hubby, son in love, daughter, grandsons, and soul sister
My big love with the little grand loves!

It’s Time

I believe that God wants to accomplish His work supernaturally on the earth today- heaven touching earth! He wants your life transformed in every area- no gray spots- He wants you living the full blessed and free life! Just like in the beginning at His Word He brings chaos into cosmos! My question to you is when God speaks do you obey? Do you let Holy Spirit move in you bringing freedom, identity and direction to your heart from God’s Word. In my own life I have come to know the thrill of having His Word be my final authority and Holy Spirit my teacher, helper and guide. John 16:13 letting Him guide me in all Truth. He wants to reveal to you who He is and who you are in Him. I believe many of us have Jesus as Savior but Holy Spirit reveals King Jesus too! He equips you to walk out a Spirit led life and not one led by your flesh, feelings, opinions, culture or others! When Peter preached His message in Acts 2 he said repent and be baptized every one of you in Jesus name and receive the gift of Holy Spirit! The call of God is the call of repentance and the promise is feeling you with Holy Spirit! When you live a Spirit led life – you have a Love for God’s Word- you have agreement with it not an argument for it!!!! You become a steward of yourself and all that you have influence over. You  deal with sin and confess it and walk away from it- you come out of it! You have compassion with great conviction! You have joy that gives you strength!!! The list goes on and on. His gifts are meant for battle so that you can win- they are dangerous and dynamic to the enemy and your flesh. They are weapons for your warfare. Jesus came so you could be free and gave you a comforter for when you are uncomfortable. Holy Spirit will help you stop lying to God, yourself and others- He brings Truth to you and through you! Ephesians 5:27. Father God wants a Holy church- a Holy People- a Holy You! ❤️🔥

Living a Spirit led life will help you supernaturally achieve what is impossible humanly. You realize that you are able to be like Jesus! Others get to observe the miracle of faith from just your obedience. When you live by faith you can be placed in the lions den like Daniel but immediately become master of it not master to it. You can radiate a force that does not destroy but brings peace to the situation. Faith functions in confidence and peace! God is your source- you don’t have a what am I going to do- you have a I know God is going to do something… 

What Father God says in His Word is exactly what He means, but Holy Spirit will never force you to do anything. You have to want to live right. You will never see anywhere in the Bible where Father God forces anyone to live right. Jesus came to redeem us from sin. He came to conquer and there is total victory in Christ! You are part of the great things God wants to do on earth. It is time to change the world to look like heaven instead of letting the world change you to look like hell. 

Holy Spirit took a backsliding Peter into a world changing witness for Jesus! He wants to do the same for you and me. 

When you have a Word fed and Spirit led life you possess great Truth. Paul shows us this- in his writings to Timothy and Thessalonians- he shares the signs of the times. 1 Timothy 4:1, “Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the Faith, giving heed to seducing spirit, and doctrines of devils.” Don’t be seduced by culture. It is time to stop being satisfied with being taught the Word- but time to possess and live out the Word! You have to go after it- seek it- be zealous over it. If you dabble in destruction you will not know real Truth but only deception. Above all, Father God wants us to live in truth. Be careful with your mind and motives, make sure to give it only to Jesus! When we stand on Truth, God’s Word, we will have victory and no devil, no lie will stop you. 

I read one time where someone said there are different deception. Moral deception, like where the enemy deceived Eve in the garden and tries to deceive Jesus. He is still doing this today. There will be cultural deception- let’s follow a person, ourselves or group and not the Word. We are living in unique times where people would rather hold on to a lie. We want the benefit and blessings without walking in obedience and Truth. I think of the guy at the pool of Bethesda, “ behold, thou art made whole; sin no more, lest a worse thing come unto thee..” It is time to walk in wholeness and stop the cycles of chaos. Even though we live in a world that is conditioned for a lie it is time to change the conditions! 

My security is in Christ Jesus not others opinions. One thing I know is that I may not achieve greatness with humans but I will achieve greatness in the heavenlys! Don’t be afraid of the future. Let’s get ready for it. Let’s impact it. It’s Time to bring heaven to earth.

Habit of Thanksgiving

Here is a thought: What if we really gave thanks in all circumstances? Just like it says in 1 Thessalonians 5:18. For the last few years, I have been working on being thankful every single day. It keeps me in the right perspective.

It is not possible to be negative and thankful at the same time. Science has even proven this. When you begin to be thankful, anxiety has to leave. When we choose to give thanks to God for the blessings, we make room for more of His presence. 

It is like Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not fret or have any anxiety about anything, but in every circumstance and in everything, by prayer and petition (definite requests), with thanksgiving, continue to make your wants known to God. And God’s peace (shall be yours, that tranquil state of a should assured of its salvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from God and being content with its earthly lot of whatever sort that is, that peace) which transcends all understanding shall garrison and mount guard over your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”

When I choose to be thankful, anxiety has to go. When I choose to be thankful I have seen hard days become holy days. Yes, life has storms but this is when we should be more thankful! I have to make a decision to focus on God’s faithfulness and goodness. His joy will give you strength, His Word will refresh and direct you, and His love with sustain you.

Here are just a few things I am thankful for:

God’s unconditional love, my family, my church, the honor of sharing His Good News, health, running water, bathrooms, A/C and the list goes on and on….

Start looking around and out loud saying what you are thankful for. Take a few moments right now to thank God for His goodness, love and faithfulness. Then thank Him for a couple things in your life that you’re grateful for—whether it’s your family, your career, or even your cup of coffee in the morning. You can make a habit of being thankful!

HIS Desires

One of the meanings of desire is a strong want. I ask myself what do I really desire? There is one thing that I know for sure is I want God’s desires for my life. His will and His way over mine. What is beautiful is that Father God intimately knows you and the desires of your heart. Choosing to live by faith and let God have my deepest desires and asking Him for what He desires for me. The hard part is being okay with whatever answer He has.

Over the last few years I have worked on my attitude of gratitude, choosing to be thankful and joyful in all situations. Realizing that Father God has blessed me with so many wonderful things. Yet, there always seems to be something that I desire. “3 Trust (lean on, rely on, and be confident) in the Lord and do good; so shall you dwell in the land and feed surely on His faithfulness, and truly you shall be fed.4 Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He will give you the desires and secret petitions of your heart.5 Commit your way to the Lord [roll and repose each care of your load on Him]; trust (lean on, rely on, and be confident) also in Him and He will bring it to pass.6 And He will make your uprightness and right standing with God go forth as the light, and your justice and right as [the shining sun of] the noonday.” (Psalms 37:3-6)

This scripture makes my heart smile. It starts of with TRUST in the Lord and do good. It does not say trust in my plans or desires. That means even when I do not understand everything in the chapter or paragraph of my life that I still TRUST the author for my and His story to be good. It also says to delight in the Lord. When I delight in Him, I care more about what He wants than what I want. My desires start to be His desires. I find His presence and His love and His joy and His peace… in all the moments and situations. In all the things. Then I have to commit to doing my life with Him, in a real relationship with my First Love. My yes to Jesus means that my life is not my own anymore. I am no longer the main character in my story- HE is. His joy shines in the darkness. His peace is present in the chaos and pain. His love is never failing.

As Holy Spirit leads our lives, His desires become our desires. Today Love God and allow Him to transform your heart and mind. Let His Word be your foundation. 1 Thessalonians 2:13 says, “the Word of God… also performs its work in you who believe.” Let His Word do a work in your heart and transform your mind. Romans 12 too! The life God has for me centers around Him, not me. I must fill my mind and heart with scriptures, His Word to live the life God desires for me. Choosing to daily walk by His Spirit! The God Adventure life is lived in and through the power of Holy Spirit with the Word as the lamp to our path.

My love and our kiddos!

Just a Little Bit

Legacy is what you leave behind when you are gone. It is what others will remember about you after you are no longer here. I think about the legacy that my grandparents left behind. The little bit they thought they left was actually so much. They showed me how to impact eternity! They showed me faith, hope, love, endurance, and servant leadership. They taught me to be treasure hunters!

One thing my family has taught me over the years is to catch the little foxes that spoil things. We are called to obey the Lord and be like Jesus even in the small things. We have obstacles every day which can be opportunities. These circumstances show our true character. We get to take integrity test. We think I can tell a little lie, no one will care if it is not the exact truth. They will give grace knowing my situation. These little moments are the small foxes that spoil the vine. We live in a culture that actually believes these small lies are acceptable and even necessary.

What is necessary and acceptable is to live in the Truth of God’ Word in all circumstances. When the officer ask how fast you are going and you say “no I don’t know”. That sounds like an innocent mistake but it is not. The small appeasement or indulgence that helps you fit in with culture or be relevant. In Song of Solomon 2:15 it says, “the little foxes that spoil the vineyards”. The small areas of our life that feel so unimportant or irrelevant. Jesus said in Luke 16:10, “one who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much, and one who is dishonest in a very little is also dishonest in much”. This means that our Yes to Father God’s command is not based on being a little or big thing. We can not compare sin size. As we obey in the small things it is easier to be obedient in the bigger. Sin is small in comparison to the greatness of our Savior, Jesus.

Every time we say “Yes” to God’s Will and Way it is an opportunity to grow. When we obey in the small things it brings great joy. There is no limits on Joy! I encourage you to read Matthew 25, the parable of the talents. Ask yourself what can of attitude do I have? Do you really obey God? Do you really trust Him?

One day I want to hear my good and faithful servant. Choosing to not just manage what the Lord has given us but to grow it for Him. It is important in today’s culture to understand that we can do things without the rest of the world seeing or acknowledging it. We do things unto the Lord. Most everyone in the Bible started out being insignificant but went on to be legends with great legacies. The key was obedience. Ask the Lord to show you what you can be doing right now for Him from where you are with what you have! Let Him show you how a small yes can make a great impact in eternity!

Hanging out with some of our Covenant VBS crew and thankful for their Yes to Jesus! Impacting Eternity!

rebuilding

Here is a little secret- knowing how to forgive past hurts and let them go is a critical tool to live out your divine destiny. Forgiving and letting go is one of the main keys in growing strong relationships and being emotionally and physically healthy.

Yes, there are some wrong-doings (sins) that are so harmful that the relationships can not survive, forgiveness can still survive and cause you to thrive in life. Forgiveness helps you move forward. When we are unforgiving it takes a physical and emotional toll on us. Here are some nuggets to help you forgive.

You have to be unlocked and receptive to forgiveness. It is a choice and one you must do by faith and with the help of Holy Spirit. This means you make a decision to walk in forgiveness. The thoughts that you have must be filtered through God’s Word so that you can live in Truth. Self-Control has to be put into play so that you can refrain from wrong thoughts, emotions, and actions. Accepting that your why doesn’t have to be answered for the reason of the hurtful and harmful behaviors. This does not mean you are approving or accepting the behavior but you are accepting forgiveness.

Close relationships need forgiveness to flourish. Everyone makes mistakes, and we all need to forgive and be forgiven. It is true that no healthy relationship can endure for a long period of time without forgiveness. (marriages, family relationships, friendships, partnerships… all need forgiveness) Colossians 3:12-13 says, “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.“

I know personally that when I see God’s love for me, and my brokenness apart from Him, I can truly love and forgive others. Many times we are good at taking the gift of forgiveness but not as good as giving it. Forgiveness moves us into a place of enduring love. Love that is planted in God and not just our emotions. Love and Forgiveness go together. Father God’s love can never be exhausted. Forgiveness is a part of love that strengthens, builds, and restores.

Forget about it

Here is some truth for you. What really matters is that you obey Father God. This is the key to living the blessed life, walking in freedom, finding your true identity, and having His power and authority. Your own opinion and reputation doesn’t count, so forget about those things and focus on Jesus. We delay our divine destiny and victories by walking in disobedience, and partial obedience is still disobedience. We have been made more than conquerors. If you read your Bible, which I highly recommend, then you will realize that since the world began Father God has been looking for those that live by faith and obey His Word. These two things are how you live the abundant life now. Your life will become a walking billboard of His mercy, love, grace and power. You must realize that you are a billboard already. The question is what does your billboard promote? Just like He wanted to lead the children of Israel into the promise land, He still wants that for you today. The issue is that we as people have not changed much and the same things that kept them from having promise land living stop us now. They dealt with unbelief just like we do. Yes, I know if you are reading this that you believe in God most likely. The Israelites believed in God and had seen Him do signs and wonders with their very own eyes. They believed in Him, but they did not really believe what Father God said. When He told them about the Promise Land and that He would give it to them (Exodus 23), they became afraid and doubted. If they truly believed God it would not have mattered how big the giants were, they would have obeyed His Word. Unbelief makes you refuse to do what the Word of God says! This unbelief always leads to disobedience. We begin to try to figure things out on our own instead of trusting His Word. I am personally thankful that God doesn’t require me to be smart, He just ask for us to listen and obey. Just know today that when God calls you to do something, He is with you! You have to forget about what culture says, your feelings say, others say- and only remember what God says. You are anointed for this time!

Wake Up and Say Woe!

Today so many don’t have moral boundaries and we look for acceptance. As individuals so many choose to stay silent. We must love what God loves and hate what God hates. God loves people. We are lovers of people. But staying silent is not love. We must speak truth in love. This is the only way to freedom. If we do not take a stand, if we stay silent we are agreeing with evil. We are saying it does not matter. We are saying people do not matter.

Proverbs 8:13 NKJV says, “To fear God is to hate evil.” If we truly call ourselves Christians, we must not only love what God loves, but we must hate what He hates. This does not mean we are hateful to people, because God loves people-but we must hate sin and evil. It is His goodness that brings us to repentance.

But we also must not turn a blind eye to the truths laid out for us in the Word of God. We can no longer keep our mouths closed, keep our eyes and ears shut, and sit on our hands on the issues that surround us- such as Israel, pro-life, identity, family….. ask and let Holy Spirit show you.

I say wake up! Speak up in Love! Let us love with more passion than we ever have and let us pray earnestly as if our lives depend on it- because they do!

Praying for Israel! City of David cap!

“There are six things that the Lord hates, seven that are an abomination to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that make haste to run to evil, a false witness who breathes out lies, and one who sows discord among brothers” (Proverbs 6:16-19).

“Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good” (Romans 12:9).

Jesus said, “And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed” (John 3:19-20).

The Bible says, “Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness” (Isaiah 5:20).

It is time to say wake up and say woe! Let your light shine!

Do What You Do Better!

Many things are easy to talk about, know about, but doing those things is entirely different. Many times we think we need to do bigger or different when the truth is we need to do what we already know to do better. The bigger will come but only with the better. I personally made a decision many years ago to a lifetime of growth.

For growth and the better you have to make decisions. You must remember that no decisions is a wrong decision. And when you make a decision with a heart posture of faith and integrity God will protect you. Father God can not direct someone that is not moving and just sitting. “For being as he is a man of two minds (hesitating, dubious, irresolute), he is unstable and unreliable, and uncertain about everything he things, feels, decides.” James 1:8. Go ahead and make the decision to do it God’s way even in the middle of the battle of weariness. We are all tempted to tire out. Paul tells us twice in the Word of God, “do not grow weary in well doing.” When we push back on weariness we build endurance. “3 And not only this, but [with joy] let us exult in our sufferings and rejoice in our hardships, knowing that hardship (distress, pressure, trouble) produces patient endurance; 4 and endurance, proven character (spiritual maturity); and proven character, hope and confident assurance [of eternal salvation].” Romans 5:3-4.

So, when doing better gets tough- Paul says don’t grow weary. The doing better comes from being intentional. In Titus 3:14 it says, “let our people learn to devote themselves to good works, so as to help cases of urgent need, and not be unfruitful.” This does not happen without effort. This doing better is not just when life is peaceful and comfortable, it is for the times of conflict and stretching.

C.S. Lewis said, “hardship often prepares ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny.”

When we read Hebrews 12, it is interesting to me that our lives are compared to a long distance race. A life of endurance. The word for race in Greek in this verse is agona. It is very much like our English word agony. Understanding that any time there is a long distance run every part of your being will be affected by it.

This is why it is so important to win the war in your head. Don’t give up- keep running. You have to think possibilities not problems. Your life is always moving in the direction of your strongest thoughts. The Bible says, “as a man thinketh so is he.” You have to know that you were created for righteousness. When you tap into your divine cause, you will be fulfilled, bold, and passionate. If you don’t tap into your divine cause, you will be frustrated, destructive, critical, and bored. Weariness has to go when you recognize that you are fighting from victory and not for victory. The moment you are in does not stop the mission you are on.

You are here by God’s appointment. You are here in God’s timing. You are here to be under God’s training. You are here for God’s keeping. You are here for God’s purpose. Remember Father God’s past faithfulness is a predictor of tomorrow’s promise. Do not make decisions based on temporary desires, but make decisions based on your divine destiny. God is not obligated to your dreams, He is committed to His purpose for your life! Don’t grow weary! Do what is the best! Do the better!

Stay focused!