Choose To Set Your Mind

When you became a Christ lover and believer, everything changed. Even if your feelings and thoughts did not catch up immediately. Paul reminds us in Colossians 3, “Since you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is.”

That single statement carries the power to reframe your entire life. You are no longer bound by the world’s old patterns, priorities, and thought systems. You have been resurrected into a new way of living and with that comes a new way of thinking.

A Call to Intention

Paul gives two clear commands. We must set our hearts and set our minds on things above. These are not passive statements. The word set implies discipline, direction, and decision. Just as a thermostat does not change the temperature until someone sets it, your thoughts won’t drift toward heaven by accident.

You have to decide what fills your mind. Romans 12:2 tells us, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” This is an ongoing process not a one-time event. Every day, we get to reset our focus and renew our thinking through God’s Word.

Setting your heart and mind on things above is an act of worship — it’s saying, “Lord, You have my attention. You direct my thoughts. You lead my desires.”

The Battle for the Mind

Let us be honest it is easy to let our thoughts settle into the dust of earthly thinking: worry, comparison, materialism, fear of man, or self-preservation. The world is loud. Screens, schedules, and headlines constantly shout for our attention.

But our faith will never soar if our thoughts remain tethered to the ground. Scripture calls us upward not into escapism, but into alignment with heaven. Romans 8:6 says, “The mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace.”

When we think from a heavenly perspective, we do not ignore our responsibilities, but we simply see them differently. Every obstacle becomes an opportunity to reflect Christ. Every conversation becomes a chance to share His love. Every challenge becomes a place for His peace to rule.

A New Way to Live

Romans 6:4 declares, “Just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.” That new life is not just about behavior, it is about belief.

We start seeing through God’s lens. We remember that our worth is not tied to performance or appearance but is anchored in being “hidden with Christ in God.” You are not your past, your failure, you are in Christ, and He is your life. Check out Galatians 2:20 too!

That phrase changes everything: “Christ, who is your life.” Jesus is not just part of your life, He is your life. The more that truth roots itself in your heart, the more your mind shifts. You will see yourself through His eyes forgiven, chosen, and loved. And you will begin to see others not as interruptions or irritations, but as image-bearers of God’s grace.

Anchored in the Eternal

When you set your heart and mind on things above, peace begins to settle in. You anchor yourself to what is unchanging, holy, and eternal.

Earthly things, both the blessings and the burdens, are temporary. But things above? Those are forever: Love. Grace. Truth. Holiness. God’s promises.

These are the truths that stabilize your mind and direct your heart.

A Daily Reset

So today, before the world has a chance to fill your mind, you must set it yourself.

Before the worries come, before comparison creeps in, before distractions flood your day choose to lift your thoughts higher.

Let your prayer echo Romans 12:1–2:

“Lord, I offer my body as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to You. I refuse to conform to this world. Transform me by the renewing of my mind.”

Every time you set your heart and mind on Him, you are aligning with your true identity, the one raised, redeemed, and renewed in Christ.

Ask yourself What’s been setting the temperature of my thoughts lately? The world, or the Word?

Heaven is calling. Set your heart and mind there today. 💗

Covenant Connection

Deep connection with others doesn’t just happen. We have to do the work of being available, committed, transparent and vulnerable. We have to invest in people that are willing to walk with us into our futures. Let Holy Spirit guide and direct you. Every relationship plays a role in the story of our lives. We may think we don’t have time for connection, but the truth is we are made for it. We are all leaders and followers. But our leadership and connection doesn’t show up until we do.

If we flip the script, there is someone that wants to connect with us. He is King of kings. He is just. He is perfect. He is truth. He is love. And all His plans include connecting with you. His name is Jesus!

It is proven that connecting with others is important. Social connection lowers anxiety and depression. This connection with others helps us regulate our emotions. It also helps improve our immune systems.

If we start each day connecting with Daddy God- it supercharges you. This is a reliable connection. It is always trustworthy, safe, loving, merciful, forgiving, purposeful, faith filled, miraculous, super intelligent…. connection that never fails.

Let me just give an example of needing connection. We wake up and check our cell phone for text, emails and private messages. We take a shower and use the restroom- we check again. We drive to work or school- check it again. We live a cycle of checking. Checking for connection. We keep going back because our hearts long for connection. Yet, no matter how many times we check, we still have a craving for more.

Our first connection has to be with Daddy God. Time spent connecting with Him equips us for every other relationship/connection that we have, even the connection with ourselves. We are created for real-life connections that are way deeper than emails, text messages, Facebook comments and Snapchat. We are created for face to face and heart to heart.

<<<After coming out of this season, the realization that we need to fill that lonely place in our hearts with friends that we can share life with in person. Not just virtual lives.>>>

There is something so special about in-person, heart to heart, eye to eye connection and conversation. First, in our quiet time with Holy Spirit, then, with each other. Hebrews 10:25 instructs us to not give up on meeting together to worship and encourage one another. “Meeting together” is important to Father God. Even Jesus needed face to face connections. He surrounded himself with close friends- first with Father God, secondly with intimate friends. Friends like Peter, James and John- friends like Martha, Mary and Lazarus. People that Jesus shared meals with, had conversations with, and experienced life with.

So this week who will you connect with face to face? Who will you share Jesus with? Who will you look at eye to eye and listen to heart to heart?

<<<Connection can happen regardless of our perceptions, regardless of what potentially could separate us. Ie. Age, race, gender, economic standing, or political views. >>>

Proverbs is full of nuggets of truth on how to connect with each other on the deepest level- heart to heart. This is one of life’s most important skills. It doesn’t matter how talented or smart you are, the key is knowing how to connect to others.

One of the most important parts of connection is commitment. It is making the choice to be someone’s friend no matter what. The difference between an acquaintance and a friend is commitment. Proverbs 17:17 “a friend loveth at all times…”.

True connections take time. While on social media we can hit the like button we are called to go much deeper with each other. That means making relationships a priority. Different seasons of life and circumstances will impact our connections, but we make time for what is important to us. Just a little bit of time and encouragement goes a long way.

Being connected means choosing to stay when it is not easy. We live in a fallen world and are all fallen people. This means conflict comes, personalities clash, disappointments happen, and falls occur. But we become stronger when we stay in connection. When we decide what happens to one happens to all. We are called to share the joyful and the hard life. Connection means we win and lose together. It means we cheer each other on, hold each other up, and keep Jesus at the center of all our relationships.

Stay fully connected to the divine love and wisdom of our Heavenly Father. By praying, reading His love letter to you (the Bible), worship, and following His purpose for our lives. Loving God- Loving Ourselves- Loving People! Covenant Connections.